When a judge signs your divorce decree, you expect the fight to be over. You assume the other party will follow the court’s binding orders because that’s what the law requires. Unfortunately, a court order is only as strong as the mechanisms used to enforce it.
For many in Utah, a finalized divorce decree is treated as a mere suggestion by an ex-spouse. Alimony payments are skipped, parent-time schedules are ignored, or promises to refinance the marital home and remove a name from the mortgage are forgotten. The law provides measures to compel your ex-spouse to comply, from garnishing their wages to holding them in contempt of court.
That is where a knowledgeable Salt Lake City divorce enforcement lawyer steps in to ensure the final judgment is actually respected. We understand how to take the words on paper and turn them into concrete action.
If your ex-spouse is violating your court order, call us today at 385-503-3663.
Why Choose RCG Law Group?
Our firm is led by founder Ryan C. Gregerson, a graduate of Baylor Law School, which is consistently ranked as a top litigation school in the nation. His background as a former Prosecuting Attorney provides a unique advantage. He has built a career on holding people accountable for their actions, a skill set that translates directly to compelling compliance in family law.

This strategic edge is balanced by the empathetic insight of Joey Carlson, an Equity Partner and our COO. As a father of four who has personally managed the difficulties of divorce, Joey understands the stress and frustration you are facing firsthand.
With a robust team of 10 lawyers and over a dozen legal staff, including attorney Cleve Burns and his extensive trial experience, we have the resources to move quickly and decisively on urgent enforcement matters. This collective strength, built over 50 years of combined experience and service to more than 3,000 clients, ensures your case gets the attention it needs.
Our Track Record
Our commitment to results is reflected in our reputation. Ryan Gregerson holds a perfect 10.0 Top Attorney rating on Avvo and was recognized as a Super Lawyers Rising Star from 2017-2021. The firm has earned the prestigious AV Preeminent rating from Martindale-Hubbell, the highest possible rating for legal ability and ethical standards.
We Provide Holistic Service
Enforcement battles are emotionally draining. We recognize this and offer holistic support that extends beyond legal filings. We can connect you with a network of trusted professionals to handle the things the law cannot, including therapists and financial planners, to help you manage the stress and strategize for asset recovery.
Conveniently Located
Conveniently located in South Jordan, our office at 10619 S Jordan Gateway #100 is easily accessible from anywhere in the Salt Lake Valley, just 5 minutes from South Jordan City Hall and 25 minutes from the airport, without the hassle of downtown parking. We are positioned to serve you effectively and efficiently.
What You Can Recover
When you initiate an enforcement action, the primary goal is to make you whole. This means compelling your ex-spouse to follow the original court order and compensating you for any losses you’ve incurred because of their non-compliance.
Economic Remedies (Money Owed)
If your ex has failed to meet their financial obligations, our first step is to calculate precisely what you are owed. This includes:
- Judgments for Arrears: We will tally all missed child support, alimony, or other payments to establish a clear, legally recognized debt.
- Statutory Interest: Utah law allows for the collection of interest on missed support payments. This acknowledges that the delay in payment has a real financial cost, and you are entitled to be compensated for it.
- Forced Asset Transfer: If your ex-spouse is refusing to sign documents to sell a property or transfer a title as ordered in the decree, the court may intervene. A judge could appoint a special master to sign the documents on their behalf or order the sale of an asset to satisfy a debt.
Sanctions and Penalties
Sometimes, the court can impose penalties to motivate your ex-spouse to follow the order moving forward.
- Contempt of Court: Willfully disobeying a court order is considered contempt of court. A judge may impose sanctions that might include fines, community service, or, as a last resort, even jail time to coerce payment or compliance.
- Modification of Terms: In situations involving persistent interference with parent-time, the court may see this as a reason to modify the custody arrangement in your favor. Consistent failure to abide by the parenting plan is evidence that the current arrangement is not in the child’s best interest an issue a divorce modification lawyer can help present clearly to the court.
Can I Make My Ex Pay My Legal Bills?
This is one of the most common questions we hear. You shouldn’t have to spend your own money just to force your ex-spouse to do what the law already requires. In successful enforcement actions, particularly those involving child support and alimony, the court has the authority to order the non-compliant party to pay your attorney’s fees and court costs.
The Basics of a Divorce Enforcement Case in Utah
How a Salt Lake City Divorce Enforcement Lawyer Starts the Process
The primary tool for enforcement is a motion filed with the court. It is a continuation of your original divorce case under the court’s continuing jurisdiction.
- The Petition to Enforce: We begin by drafting a formal document for the court that details every specific violation. This petition will identify the exact paragraphs of your Divorce Decree that your ex-spouse has ignored and clearly state what you are asking the court to do.
- Order to Show Cause: This is the legal motion that formally accuses your ex-spouse of contempt and orders them to appear in court. It effectively shifts the burden of proof. Instead of you having to prove every detail, your ex-spouse must now explain to a judge why they shouldn’t be held in contempt for their actions.
Common Violations We Handle
- Financial Non-Compliance: This is the most frequent issue. It includes the failure to pay court-ordered alimony or child support, refusal to reimburse you for the children’s medical or extracurricular expenses, or not paying debts they were assigned in the decree.
- Parent-Time Interference: Violations of the parenting plan range from consistently being late for exchanges and canceling at the last minute to outright refusing to return a child at the scheduled time.
- Property Division Refusal: This occurs when an ex-spouse fails to follow through on the division of assets. Common examples include refusing to refinance a mortgage to remove your name, failing to turn over specific items of personal property, or draining a joint account that was meant to be divided.
What Is The Burden of Proof?
To successfully enforce your decree, we must demonstrate three key elements to the court:
- There was a clear and valid court order in place.
- Your ex-spouse knew about the order.
- They had the ability to comply but willfully chose not to do so.
The “willful” component is a key factor here. If your ex-spouse lost their job and truly could not make a payment, the court’s response would be different than if they simply decided not to pay. Our job is to gather the evidence needed to show their non-compliance was a choice.
The Clean Hands Doctrine
The clean hands doctrine is a legal concept that means to ask the court for help enforcing your order, you must generally be in compliance with your own obligations under the decree. If you are withholding visitation because child support hasn’t been paid, for example, a court might be less inclined to grant your request. Follow the decree to the letter, even if your ex-spouse is not.
What About the Statute of Limitations?
In Utah, a judgment is typically enforceable for eight years. While this seems like a long time, it is never wise to wait. If you let violations slide for months or years, a court might view this delay as you implicitly agreeing to the changed circumstances, a legal concept known as laches or waiver. Acting promptly strengthens your case and shows the court you take the decree seriously—especially for those still navigating questions like how long does it take to get a divorce and what happens after it is finalized.
Where These Cases Are Heard: Local Court Insights
Nearly all divorce enforcement actions are filed in the Third Judicial District Court of Utah, which serves Salt Lake, Summit, and Tooele counties.
The Role of Commissioners
In the Salt Lake County domestic court system, your case will almost certainly be heard by a Domestic Relations Commissioner before it sees a judge. These are experienced divorce attorneys appointed by the court to handle motions, hold hearings, and manage the family law docket.
Commissioners do not make final rulings; instead, they make recommendations to the district court judge assigned to your case. These recommendations automatically become official orders unless one of the parties files a formal objection within a specific timeframe, as outlined in the Utah Rules of Civil Procedure.
Commissioner Vs. Judge Nuance
Our firm has extensive experience appearing before the commissioners and judges across the Third District, from the West Jordan courthouse to the main Matheson Courthouse in downtown Salt Lake City. This familiarity is a distinct advantage. We know which commissioners are particularly strict on financial non-compliance and which ones place a heavy emphasis on fostering co-parenting cooperation. This insight allows us to tailor our arguments to the specific tendencies of the decision-maker hearing your case.
Dealing with the Non-Compliant Ex-Spouse
When an ex-spouse willfully violates a court order, their goal is typically to minimize their obligation, exert control, or simply do what is most convenient for them, regardless of the legal requirements.
Tactics They Use to Avoid Compliance
A non-compliant ex-spouse may use several common strategies:
- Hiding Income: They might suddenly claim their income has dropped, especially if they are self-employed, to argue for lower support payments.
- The Verbal Agreement Trap: They may insist you verbally agreed to a change over the phone or in person, even though the decree requires all modifications to be in writing and signed by a judge.
- Delaying Tactics: They might constantly reschedule mediation sessions, ask for extensions on court deadlines, or ignore communication in the hope that you will eventually give up.
Why You Need a Buffer
Engaging directly with an ex-spouse who is already violating a court order typically leads nowhere. It could devolve into arguments, threats, or emotional conversations that might later be misinterpreted and used against you in court.
Acting as your legal representative, we become your buffer. We handle all communication through formal legal channels, creating a clear paper trail and preventing emotional escalation. Our role is to strip away the excuses and demand strict adherence to the black-and-white terms of the decree.
What to Do From Home Before Calling a Lawyer
The strength of your case will depend almost entirely on the quality of your documentation. We recommend starting to gather this evidence right away.
Step-by-Step Actions to Take Now
- Create a Calendar: Immediately start a detailed log. Mark down every single missed visitation, late pick-up, or late payment. Note the date, time, and a brief, factual description of what happened.
- Consolidate Financials: Go through your bank statements and print out copies, highlighting every missed or partial support payment. If they are paying something, but not the full amount, keep a running spreadsheet that shows the payment made, the amount owed, and the new arrears balance.
- Strict Communication: Stop taking phone calls from your ex-spouse regarding your divorce decree. Switch all communication to a format that creates a written record. Use text messages, emails, or a dedicated co-parenting app like OurFamilyWizard. This ensures you have an indisputable record of every conversation.
- Do Not Retaliate: Although it may be tempting to withhold visitation when child support goes unpaid, do not do it. Utah law treats these as two separate and distinct issues. Taking matters into your own hands by violating the parenting plan can seriously damage your credibility with the court and harm your own enforcement case.
FAQ for Salt Lake City Divorce Enforcement
Don’t Let Non-Compliance Rule Your Life

You might worry that going back to court is too stressful or that you cannot afford it. The reality is that ignoring ongoing violations typically costs far more in the long run. You do not have to live at the mercy of your ex-spouse’s whims.
The law is on your side, and so are we. The legal system has specific tools designed for this exact situation. Our job is to help you enforce them.Let us help you hold your ex-spouse accountable to their legal obligations. Contact RCG Law Group today at 385-503-3663 to discuss your enforcement options and take back control.
